Archive for July, 2008

20
Jul

My Mind Made Up From The Very Beginning

While growing up in my parents’ house, I wasn’t allowed to put anything on the walls. No posters or pictures or anything. This killed the little gay interior designer in me. To make matters worse, the walls were painted grey and the furniture was this tacky 90’s green marble-ized plastic custom-made fixture stuff. I was always jealous of my friend Jonathan’s bedroom because his room was so nice and his mom was an interior designer so she knew what she was doing.

When I moved to Boston, it was the first time I was going to be living on my own without any family or roommates. I didn’t have to follow any rules or make compromises. If I wanted, I could paint the walls any ridiculous color. If I wanted, I could move the furniture around every day for a month until I was happy with the final result. If I wanted, I could wake up in the middle of the night and decide that the bookshelf would be better in the bedroom than the living room and proceed to make the change that night.

Unfortunately, one of my other traits comes into play during my adventures in interior design, and that would be my inability to make simple decisions (or that’s how people qualify my desire to make informed simple decisions). Before I moved, my mom helped me pick out some furniture for the living room. We went to a few stores and there were some pieces that I liked, but I explained to her that I wasn’t ready to settle because I didn’t want to pick something and then stumble upon something I liked better a week later. Obviously this drove her crazy. Similarly, when I ready to paint my walls, it took me three trips to Home Depot to finally settle on the colors for the living room and bedroom. Luckily, I didn’t have anyone to annoy with this painting crisis.

When I did purchase that paint, one of my most vivid memories of my first year of law school was painting the apartment during that first month of classes. This was back when I was compelled to read every little thing that was assigned to us (and now I know better), so I would come home tired from class, paint for hours, and then by 9 or so I would scream to myself, “YOU NEED TO STOP THIS AND READ OR YOU’RE GONNA FAIL.” So I would drop everything and attempt to finish everything for the next’s day’s class while covered in paint and with all the furniture clumped together in the middle of the room.

While I am excited to move back to New York, I do have to say that I am painfully going to miss this apartment. If I could, I would tie a rope around it, attach it to a plane, fly it down to New York, and plop it on a building.

Push the button - Sugababes

This brings us to “Push the Button” by Sugababes. The only reason the previous story reminds me of this song is because the music video centers around elevators or something (a la “You’re Making Me High” by Toni Braxton — and jeez, that video is a WHOLE OTHER conversation)… anyways, everyone loves to comment on the dinging of the bell at every floor in the elevator to my apartment. I’m really stretching the connection here.

So yeah, this song was my introduction to amazing British pop. From Sugababes, I eventually moved onto Girls Aloud… Rachel Stevens… Lily Allen… Winehouse… Kate Nash… Adele.. Duffy… on and on and on (most of which we’ll be discussing at some point, don’t you worry). It’s always interesting to me what picks up in America and what doesn’t, but I am a huge fan of checking out what’s going on in the U.K. iTunes whenever I get the chance. With regard to Sugababes, they are essentially the British Destiny’s Child with a revolving door of girls but without the controlling father/manager. Check out “Hole in the Head” and “About You Now”… two of my FAVES.

19
Jul

Where Does The Good Go

From the day I moved to Boston three years ago through the day I move out (in about one week), Kenmore Square has been under construction.

In the meantime, the fare to ride the T has risen (twice… I think), you can no longer hop on an outbound Green line train without paying, tokens are gone and the Charlie Card is here, Boca Grande, Fin’s, and U-Burger have all set up shop. And still… construction at Kenmore Square persists. Unfortunately, walking through it everyday is my only means of getting to school, and thus, there is no way to avoid the huge dust clouds, getting fresh pavement stuck on the bottom of my shoes, or navigating the HUGE puddles that form any time it rains.

From what I understand, this is par for the course when it comes to Boston construction. It takes forever and never comes out as nice as expected (And sometimes falls apart). For example, the center of the Kenmore is supposed to be a modern-looking bus station, but instead it looks like a 90’s-style art installation of a whale’s ribcage. Even for those who think it looks interesting or nice now, I can’t see such an ugly design having longevity even among its fans.

Additionally, the subway station itself has been under renovation forever and it barely seems halfway done. The strangest thing of all regarding the subway renovation is that seems like they made FEWER turnstiles than there originally were. Anyone who frequently uses this station knows that any time there is a Red Sox game, the place turns into a zoo. Fewer turnstiles just makes sense, I suppose.

I’ll be curious to see how this all turns out when it’s “completed.” Kenmore will definitely be one of my pit stops during future Boston visits.

Where Does The Good Go - Tegan And Sara

Anyways, this brings us to Tegan and Sara’s “Where Does the Good Go?” I remember being back home during one of my school’s breaks and my brother was certain I would love this album. We have very different tastes when it comes to music so I was very skeptical and didn’t even bother listening to the album when let me borrow it. As it turns out I LOVE LOVE LOVE Tegan and Sara. This song in particular comes from probably their best album “So Jealous.” They had a new release last summer with “The Con,” and while it is still pretty good, it just didn’t seem to have the magic of “So Jealous.” If you want to check out some more of their stuff, try out: Are You Ten Years Ago, Back in Your Head, Wake Up Exhausted, Downtown, and Not Tonight. Enjoy!

08
Jul

With the Vowels All Missing and the Truth Unheard

One of the benefits of going to law school in New England is the accessibility to ski resorts. As a result, the law school weekend ski trip is a common event organized by student governments in the area. My first trip was certainly memorable, or not-so-memorable based on how it actually unfolded.

On the Friday morning of the beginning of the trip, a significant portion of the law school converged out by the parked buses with the duffel bags and equipment in tow, ready for the several hour long ride up to Maine. Forgetting how field trips worked back in middle school days, I didn’t think to actively seek out a bus ride mate, and as a result I was left like the awkward middle schooler holding his tray of food with nowhere to sit in the cafeteria. I ended up sitting next to the trash bag instead of someone I didn’t know. Sidenote: For my great return to the ski trip during my third year I insisted on driving up in my own car with others as to avoid a repeat of the trash bag being my best friend.

One of the odd traditions that needs to be mentioned is the absurd stocking up a month’s worth of food before boarding the bus and the bus’s official stop at the New Hampshire border liquor store. Honestly, everyone buys enough (crappy) food to last the rest of the semester and enough alcohol to satiate every starving child on the planet without any regard that we are only there for two nights. I’m talking JUGS of alcohol. Call me crazy, but I like to eat out for dinner while on a ~vacation~, and a little bottle of alcohol is more than enough to carry me through the weekend.

Anyways, we always end up getting up to Maine after nightfall, and the debauchery immediately begins. Now during the first year, I vaguely remember people attempting to swallow a mouthful of cinnamon or something else ridiculous as some challenge, and there being no regard for beer, wine and alcohol all being mixed in the community cup during a game of “Kings.”

The reason these memories are so vague leads us to the next chapter of this trip. The next morning it was time to embark on my rented snowboard! It had been two… maybe three years since I snowboarded, mind you. I was fairly confident in my skills to handle the green slopes at the very least, but between the icy conditions and my rustiness… TRAGEDY STRUCK. I was snowboarding down the mountain, jamming out to my meticulously mixed snowboarding playlist on my iPod when all of a sudden I start sliding on ice, fly forward, and fall face first into the snow with the snowboard hitting the back of my head. Yeah… I wasn’t wearing a helmet. From what I could remember, I laid there for a few minutes, just listening as the music continued to play. I eventually got up, and boarded down the rest of the mountain on my own.

Now the a majority of this story becomes a combination of my own blurry memory and what people told me happened:
At the bottom of the mountain I find my friends Chris and Jenna and start asking things such as:
“Where are we?” - The bottom of the mountain.
“No… I mean WHERE” - Ummm… Sugarloaf.
“Oh… what are we doing here?” - We’re on a ski trip… what happened to you?
“I don’t know” - Do you think you fell?
“Yes” - You have a concussion.
“Oh… where are we?”

Eventually, they brought me to Jake who wasn’t skiing, and I was taken to the medical facilities. Whoever checked me out there decided that I didn’t need to go to a hospital (Umm… ok), and said that I could just wait until I got back to Boston, but that I would not be able to fall into a deep sleep that night and that I clearly couldn’t drink.

For the next few hours, I harassed those friends who weren’t skiing with questions such as:
“What year is it?” - 2006 - “Oh.”
“How long have I known you guys?” - About five months - “WOW, IT FEELS LIKE WE’VE BEEN FRIENDS FOREVER.”
“What did we do last night?” - Went to a party - “OH, YEAH, SARAH CAME IN WITH HER HAIR ALL WET AND PORTABLE IPOD SPEAKERS AND PLAYED SOME HOT MUSIC!”
“How much more school do we have left?” - Two and a half years - “NOOOOO, I FEEL LIKE I’VE BEEN IN LAW SCHOOL FOREVER!”
“YOU KNOW, THIS REMINDS ME OF THAT FINAL EPISODE OF FULL HOUSE WHERE MICHELLE LOSES HER MEMORY AND EVERYONE NEEDS TO HELP HER GET IT BACK… WITH LOVE!” - You said this about five times already.
“What year is it? - 2006.
And then they decided to write some things down on my hand and eventually a piece of paper, and if I had any questions to direct my attention to those two sources of information.

During dinner, my brain became a little less cloudy and I attended the Saturday night official party at the lodge in my own semi-drunken state without having a single drink. With that, I was known school-wide as the guy who got the concussion and lost his memory on the ski trip. Later that week, one of the deans approached me in the elevator to discuss it.


Musically, the interesting part of this trip is that the playlist I was listening to is essentially branded into my brain for life. Anytime one of those songs comes on, I remember snowboarding down the mountain to it in a hazy state. One of these songs includes Will Young’s “Switch It On.” It’s a very George Michael-esque fun jam with a cute Top Gun-themed video to go along with it. He is the original winner of the UK show that inspired American Idol, and besides this one song and a cover of “Love the One You’re With” I don’t know much about him…sorry!

06
Jul

And That’s The Way I Like It

One of the biggest changes during the past three years? My switch from Windows to Mac.

As I began law school, I was still using the computer that I had to purchase through my undergrad’s laptop initiative: a crapalicious Dell Latitude (with a bunch of numbers and letters after it). At that point, it was only two years old but seriously began to show a lot of wear and tear. It ran slow as anything, was always as hot as the center of the sun, and worst of all began to develop cracks at the hinges of the screen.

As any law student knows, if you want to be able to take your exams on your computer as opposed to handwriting them, you need to be using Windows. Making the switch to Apple was something I had been hoping to do, but the thought of handwriting a three or four hour essay exam did not sound appealing. My goal was to try to keep the same tired Dell until I graduated and then make the switch. Unfortunately, my Dell had no intention on staying alive for five years.

By the end of my first year of law school, one of the hinges completely broke off and the remaining one was not looking good. It was decision time. I couldn’t handle the thought of purchasing another Windows laptop that I would feel compelled to keep until it broke down, and as important as law school exams are, I’d figure something out… be it handwriting (”Hey, other people did it, why can I?”), borrowing a laptop from someone, or jerry-rigging the Dell when need be. So I took the plunge and haven’t looked back since. In fact, any time I am now forced into using a Windows computer I am usually on the verge of tears.

You may be wondering what I did end up doing for the last two years during exam time. Well… by the time my Fall ‘06 exams rolled around, both hinges on the Dell were GONE so I delicately balanced the screen against my largest textbook propped up for three hours. Worrying about the computer breaking apart during the middle of the exam eventually became more stressful than the exam itself, so I just bit the bullet and wrote out my exams during my third year. My baby is still going strong, although I think he could use a fresh battery soon, and if all goes according to plan he is gonna have a little 3G-powered brother this Friday!


This brings us to Ben Lee’s “Catch My Disease.” To be honest, I haven’t the slightest clue how I originally stumbled upon him since it happened almost three years ago, but I do remember how the song eventually got some more mainstream recognition. While Apple is known for essentially propelling virtually unknown music acts to instant stardom, Dell’s ads from 2006 used this song for a campaign and unfortunately for Ben I’m not sure he experienced the same result. Now call me crazy, but somehow I don’t think a song with the lyrics “catch my disease” is the way to advertise a machine running the Windows operating system notoriously known for being more susceptible to viruses… but that’s just me. Don’t get me wrong, I love the song, but I am not sure if it would be my first choice if I wanted to advertise crapalish computers.

04
Jul

I See Diamonds in the Sky

I have a confession. In the fall of 2005, I went to an Ashlee Simpson concert.

Now let me clarify. The aforementioned guy who “just friend”-ed me called about a month or so later telling me he got tickets for an Ashlee Simpson concert… in New Hampshire. He explained how none of his friends would ever go to such a thing and he thought I would enjoy it. I’m not one to turn a free event and it was a nice gesture on his part, so I apprehensively agreed. I guess friends hang out or whatever, and this sounded like a fun adventure despite me not being Ashlee Simpson’s number one fan.

As he picked me up hours in advance of the concert, the guy informed me that the concert was in Podunk, New Hampshire by the beach and that I should mentally prepare myself for what I was about to experience. Apparently we had to show up way before they would let us in because he was sure there was going to be a massive line and we needed to get there in time so we could get a good spot. While parking the car, he announced, “THIS IS IT,” I was kind of amazed. The venue was in the midst of a completely dilapidated and boarded up boardwalk. All I could think was “Oh Ashlee, Ashlee, Ashlee…”

 

Well… the wait in line was interesting. We were easily the oldest people there without children, and while I felt awkward at 22, him being 28 was possibly more noticeable. We were actually approached several times by gaggles of girls who made posters for the boy band-ish opening act, and they were convinced that we were members of said band just hanging out before the show. They even showed us the pictures on their homemade posters and screamed, “LOOK, THAT’S YOU! OH MY GOD!!!!”

We were eventually herded into the venue itself after a painful wait, and I needed a drink. If you ever want to be able to quickly and easily get a drink from the bar at a concert venue, go to an Ashlee Simpson concert — you’ll have very little competition for the bartender’s attention. Unfortunately, or fortunately depending on how you look at it, we had to consume our beverages in a gated off area all the way in the back so we were forced to chug our beers. The lights went down, I was led through the parents supervising their children to the area just behind the screaming girls, and the show began. For what it’s worth, it was actually pretty fun. From what I could tell, she sang live despite her marred reputation from the SNL incident. We jumped around and I sang along to the songs I knew. We got back to Boston late, he dropped me off, and I actually never heard from him again.
 


Now if there’s one thing about Ms. Simpson I don’t get, it’s her label/management’s inability to pick the right singles. From the first CD, I will never get why Unreachable or Nothing New were not singles. From her latest CD, it’s just been a parade of mistakes while the one gem of the album, the Timbaland-produced Murder, sits waiting. Just for the record, I cannot stand Timbaland’s current omnipresence, but this is one instance where his help is needed and appreciated.

From her second album, which was the one just released when I saw her in concert, the only two singles were those girl-powery anthems Boyfriend and L.O.V.E. The one song I fell in love with, however, was Burning Up which I think would’ve had much more mainstream appeal. I’ll definitely always remember that strange experience of seeing her in concert in the middle of nowhere with someone who had already kinda sorta dumped me a month earlier whenever I hear that song.